(If you are new to this series start here).
Bank account: 230.00. All of it must go in addition to my check on Friday, to camper and lot rent.
Savings versus renting: 700.00. Camper has paid for itself already. No security deposit needed. I saved the cost of my camper.
I am laying in my car about to sleep. I am excited. In two days I will have my camper. I think about how I will decorate it.
I have figured out a way to sleep in my car that doesn’t have me sore in the mornings. I lay down the back seat and cover the flat space with a thick blanket. I lay with my legs through the hole into the trunk. It is the first time I have lain normally in a week. I had been sleeping in the drivers seat. I am listening to the rain on the roof and I think of homeless people who don’t have a car and I pray for them that they are somewhere dry. A shelter maybe. I feel gratitude for my paid off car.
I feel gratitude for my sons who I love and who love me.
I am grateful for foodshelves. I have two boxes of food that will last me till midmonth when I get paid again.
I feel gratitude for my mother who is also having to move house and is looking for a new home.
I feel gratitude for the bald eagle who kept flying overhead closely to me that I saw today when I was standing in the Lake being buffeted by the waves.
I feel gratitude strangely, for having lost so much. If I had not lost so much the last couple of years I would not feel gratitude for what I have left. I am warm and dry and safe.
I am grateful for the love of friends.
I am grateful for the job I have. It pays what I need it to pay and I save carefully for what I need. Like my camper. It is better than no job at all and I like driving.
I am grateful for my health.
I am grateful I can donate plasma and help others while being able to also help myself. The extra cash helps.
To the world I have nothing. To see me you would feel sorry for me or even feel funny or horrified. Please don’t. I am reduced in my circumstances, but I have love and health and my spirituality and hope. I have an education. I will be a teacher again. I dont know how. I applied for subbing till I can get licensed for this state. It is a start. I have a beginning.
I won’t quit. All I lost can be replaced. I’m just not sure I need to replace any of it.
I have a lot more empathy for poor people. Poor people aren’t lazy. Most work like me at jobs that don’t pay enough for the cost of living. Some of us can’t get jobs for some reason. Maybe its health or age. I don’t know why I have not gotten a decent job in my field. I applied for government jobs and got turned down for all of them. I was qualified for all of them. I don’t know why I can’t seem to get hired. I have done and redone my resume more times than I can count. I have left off my Masters degree. I have put it back on. I have tailored my resume for each position. They don’t tell me why they don’t hire me. I never heard from any of them at all. I kept telling myself as I do now that if I don’t get this job it means that Spirit has something better. Inside on my bad days I wonder if I am a failure for not getting a single one of the 200 plus jobs I have applied for. I catch myself poor shaming myself. We have gotten very good as a nation at shaming poor people. We aren’t poor because we want to be. Sometimes things are out of our control. I try very hard to keep trying. To not give up. I am frustrated at being so skilled and not getting any opportunities. I keep applying. I keep working the job I have.
I am grateful for the waiting. It teaches me patience and gratitude.
I am grateful to be home. My lake. Any amount of difficulty is worth it to be home.
I have faith. Faith is built daily right now. It doesnt matter I don’t see anything happening. Just because I don’t see anything happening doesn’t mean nothing is happening.
I have nothing but I have everything. (See list above). I have the truly important things. I am grateful.